Now apologize. Unless that would make things worse.
1. Am I willing to change?
2. Am I willing to be changed in ways I may not be aware of or in control of?
3. Am I willing to address each harm that I am aware of?
4. Am I being completely honest with my mentor about the nature of the harm?
5. Have I thoroughly prepared each amend with a mentor?
6. Am I willing to complete all my amends using creative solutions for individuals I can’t meet?
7. Is finishing my amends a top priority in my life?
8. Have I finished my amends? Am I avoiding some?